A Bad Rep for Guys -- and for Good Reason

Allow me to begin by speaking only to women.

Ladies, everything you suspected about men but didn't want to believe is actually true. We are bastards, liars, cheaters... we don't care about women, we love lesbians, bi-chicks are better, we like to get drunk, get loud, go home and screw something with big tits... and if she doesn't have big tits, she better be good in the sack or we'll find something better. We're pussies, as well as us being cheaters, we're also to scared to hurt you women so we lie and hide things so we don't have to deal with your bitching and your whining, but we don't want to break up with you because why? Because you're good in bed. Frankly good in bed doesn't have to even be a requirement, simply in bed, legs open will do just fine - we'll take care of the rest. We are infatuated with things like: television, fire, concerts, sports, big cars, tools... and the bigger or louder or brighter they are the better. And if you involve big breasted beautiful women in each of these subjects, well then you'll never get our attention. Speaking of attention we have a 5 second attention span. Even Monday Night Football can't keep our attention for longer than 15 seconds, which is why there is always snacks and beer and commercials with beautiful, large breasted women to keep us occupied. Of course there's always sleep. Shit we can take a three hour nap during football, and then stay up until 1:00am to catch the next Sportscenter. It's all true, all of it. All of the stereotypes, all of the Sex in the City situations, all of that crap that is in that stupid fucking book "he's just not that into you," is absolutely 100%, positively, "the Earth is round" kinda true.

And it sucks.

It sucks because as much as I, as well as many other men have attempted to stear away from this reputation we can't seem to. We start doing so well, taking care of our women, treating them right, working things out, paying attention to them, helping with housework and all that stuff... and ONE FUCKING GUY has to jack it all up again for all of us. I hear it all the time, the same crap - and sooner or later, women are just gonna find a way to make babies without men.

I don't know, I guess I'm just mad that some guys think that respect doesn't apply to them. That they can do what ever they want to women and they won't get hurt. Well it does hurt them. The lying and the cheating hurts.

Look, I'm only saying all this stuff because one of my best friends has been really hurt by a man that has been telling her a 3 year lie. This does not set well with me. I'm not going to get too deep into it, I just want to say that Karma is a bitch; it'll come back to bite him I'm sure. However if karma doesn't take its toll than I'm smacking that fucker in to the curb. He told her that he was getting a divorce about 3 years ago, that he was tired of his wife's idea of an 'open relationship.' Must have been, because not only was he with my friend, he was seeing another girl, too. Well infact, it wasn't so bad - because he never left his wife. 3 Women. That man needs to be taught a little lesson about respect. That's some Jerry Springer shit right there.

Anyway, so I'm a little pissed off about the whole thing. I mean - women hear this all the time, and I'm not saying I'm perfect - I'm far from it - but I do try, and I work to have an honest and fruitfull relationship woth women. I for damn sure am not going to lie like that to any women ever, never have, never will. But women hear that all that time and it ruins it for the guys like me and others that actually DO try, that are honest. Yes, sometimes we all say the wrong things or we live up to that stereotype a little, but I don't think I'm all that bad - so why do men like this guy have to go and fuck it up for all the honest, decent men out there? It's almost like a suicide bomber, you never know who it's gonna be, but everyone is a suspect. Well that's what has happened here! Men are all suspect now. We're all up for trial, and we're all on the watch list.

Now to the men out there -

Gentlemen, I say let's stop all this nonsense. I've done my share of hurting and heartbreaking as well and to be honest, I don't feel very good afterwards. As if we have to be strong and powerful, that once we make a decision we stand firm and don't let up. If it's not working, then it's not working. But the first step is not to let simple things steer us away. Leave temptation at the door my fellow men. If you have a woman, love her, care for her, screw her brains out. Whatever you do, be with her, not anyone else. If it doesn't work out than move on, but communicate. This is the 21st century guys, women want communication - and TRUTHFUL communication. Not all this nonsense. So let's make a point to improve the way we treat women. Honestly.

Jess, you know I love you so I just want you to also know that I hope you find what you're looking for. It may seem hopeless but you are a beautiful person, inside and out, and good people deserve good things. If you come back to town I have a big hug saved for you.

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Other updates to change the subject...

So next week is my first MC event. I'm not supposed to tell anybody that because I don't want the bride to worry, but it's the truth. No one reads this shit anyway. In all honesty though, I've been well trained by SKM Entertainment. I see wedding schedules in my sleep. I've been to enough weddings now that I hate cake, and the electric slide can bite me. I've gotten pretty good at this stuff, I'm confident that my bride will be happy, as well as many brides to come. Anyway, wish me luck!

My demo is out and about. My girl DJ Lysa D grabbed up a copy - although I haven't heard from her yet, I'm patiently awaiting her input. I have also placed it on the website as well as plastered it all over my radio station. My Radio may be moving as well. I have a nice sized hosting server that is being given to me, and I will plug her next time - I'm diggin on the fact that I have lots more room. So look out for demos, live shows, all kindsa stuff!

Not much else is happening. I'm just hangin in there. Oh! I'm moving to a new house soon. My bro and I will be kickin' it together at his house in Goodyear, AZ. Good times will be had - listen for him on live broadcasts.

Peace out! Remember guys, be good!!